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Tuesday, May 26, 2009 @ 11:59 PM

Expectations

everyone has expectations, so what exactly is the true meaning of it?? according to wikepedia, expectations are beliefs based on the future due to uncertainty and this may or may not be realistic. a result that does not match the expecatation you have in mind makes u sad and disappointed while the ones which exceeds gives u a suprise and happiness.

there is a chinese saying that goes, the more you wish for, the greater the disappointment it will bring along.. so what does this tells us?? not to expect anything?? nah.. it only tells us to expect but also to expect for the worse.. there are alot of time when i expect something to go my way or that something magical or sweet might happen but when it doesnt, i will be super disappointed and will create a small fear to expect anything again.. yes i admit it does stop me from expecting stuff in the future but is that the way?? some may say yes and some no.. well what i think is that if u say yes, maybe u are just hiding away from reality, trying to save urself and protect urself from being hurt.. but if u say no, is it a stupid ans? nope.. certainly not.. it just shows how brave u are to be able to face the disappointment and hurt in the face..

then there are times when u wish for smthing but it never comes.. how do u feel?? sad.. then what do u do?? sulk for the whole day?? complain?? eat ice cream?? shop? there are sooo many things u can do and everything works differently for everyone.. sometimes when i have days like that.. i will sulk and sulk for weeks cuz im really upset.. but tt's life

and for ppl who are giving the expectations, dont give false hopes and false dreams cuz when it builds up bigger n higher, the fall gets tougher to break.. so if there is smthing u don think you can promise.. dont even try to promise.. cuz a word from u may do wonders for others.. words can kill at times.. so just rmb.. don promise what u cant do.. and dont do what u cant achieve..

I am not in this world to live up to other people's expectations nor do i feel that the world must live up to mine.

- Fritz Perls -

Saturday, May 16, 2009 @ 10:07 PM

arghhh... i seriously need a short getaway.. to get away from all the stress from fyp n schs and everything.. arghh... but then again.. i will need money for tt.. broke sia.. broke.. y cant money just fall from the sky and everyone will be happi.. hahah..

tinking of going to genting for the 2 wks hols.. means must start saving now for tt.. hai.. hopefully can go this time round.. hate having hols and staying in spore.. sooooo damn boring..

aniways i will update soon.. just need to vent tt out.. hahaha

Monday, May 11, 2009 @ 8:24 PM

UNCERTAINTY

in life there are alot of uncertainty be it regarding your future, your relationships or your life.. these uncertainties are there for a reason and to me i feel that its there cuz of an emptiness inside, a fear rather.. it is a state of doubt.. doubts usually build up when we are not confident of ourselves or of others.. this confidence is really hard to find sometimes and once you find it, its hard to keep..

im sure there are times when people dont feel confident about themselves, like their looks, shapes and sizes or even their personality.. cuz this world is just too damn subjective.. it makes it hard to be confident in ourselves cuz we are constantly worried about how we are being portrayed to others.. cuz deep down inside everyone yearns to be accepted whether in a society, a family or even a group of friends.. once when you are confident for a minute, someone may come saying something which just crashes everything.. that feeling suxs..

sometimes i see people do the craziest things cuz of confidence.. i see models going on diets so that they will be booked for a show, i see people eating pills to get thinner, i see people cutting themselves to get attention.. the list of crazy things people do just gets on and on.. ultimately, these fear and doubt about what you lack will still be there cuz u are not solving the problem if u take pills or if u cut yourself.. you have to face it like a battle.. but first, you gotta understand yourself in terms of how much you are able to take and how much you can handle..

anyways.. whatever uncertainty or fear you face, be confident in yourself.. dont be afraid to make the wrong choices cuz u learn from them.. dont be afraid of being rejected cuz someone else will be accepting you.. dont be afraid that the whole world would turn their back on you cuz someone will be there for you.. in short.. dont be afraid.. dont let the fears and doubts overwhelm the confidence in you.. cuz if u think u cant, u cant..

ps. sorry to those who think my post dont make sense.. if it doesnt make sense and u dont like wad u read.. u can always click the x on the right upper corner.. i don have to please u or anyone.. :D

The only limit to our realization of tomorrow will be our doubts of today.
- Franklin Delano Roosevelt -

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Tuesday, May 26, 2009 @ 11:59 PM Expectations everyone has expectations, so what exactly is the true meaning of it?? according to wikepedia, expectations are beliefs based on the future due to uncertainty and this may or may not be realistic. a result that does not match the expecatation you have in mind makes u sad and disappointed while the ones which exceeds gives u a suprise and happiness. there is a chinese saying that goes, the more you wish for, the greater the disappointment it will bring along.. so what does this tells us?? not to expect anything?? nah.. it only tells us to expect but also to expect for the worse.. there are alot of time when i expect something to go my way or that something magical or sweet might happen but when it doesnt, i will be super disappointed and will create a small fear to expect anything again.. yes i admit it does stop me from expecting stuff in the future but is that the way?? some may say yes and some no.. well what i think is that if u say yes, maybe u are just hiding away from reality, trying to save urself and protect urself from being hurt.. but if u say no, is it a stupid ans? nope.. certainly not.. it just shows how brave u are to be able to face the disappointment and hurt in the face.. then there are times when u wish for smthing but it never comes.. how do u feel?? sad.. then what do u do?? sulk for the whole day?? complain?? eat ice cream?? shop? there are sooo many things u can do and everything works differently for everyone.. sometimes when i have days like that.. i will sulk and sulk for weeks cuz im really upset.. but tt's life and for ppl who are giving the expectations, dont give false hopes and false dreams cuz when it builds up bigger n higher, the fall gets tougher to break.. so if there is smthing u don think you can promise.. dont even try to promise.. cuz a word from u may do wonders for others.. words can kill at times.. so just rmb.. don promise what u cant do.. and dont do what u cant achieve.. I am not in this world to live up to other people's expectations nor do i feel that the world must live up to mine. - Fritz Perls - back to top?
Saturday, May 16, 2009 @ 10:07 PM arghhh... i seriously need a short getaway.. to get away from all the stress from fyp n schs and everything.. arghh... but then again.. i will need money for tt.. broke sia.. broke.. y cant money just fall from the sky and everyone will be happi.. hahah.. tinking of going to genting for the 2 wks hols.. means must start saving now for tt.. hai.. hopefully can go this time round.. hate having hols and staying in spore.. sooooo damn boring.. aniways i will update soon.. just need to vent tt out.. hahaha back to top?
Monday, May 11, 2009 @ 8:24 PM UNCERTAINTY in life there are alot of uncertainty be it regarding your future, your relationships or your life.. these uncertainties are there for a reason and to me i feel that its there cuz of an emptiness inside, a fear rather.. it is a state of doubt.. doubts usually build up when we are not confident of ourselves or of others.. this confidence is really hard to find sometimes and once you find it, its hard to keep.. im sure there are times when people dont feel confident about themselves, like their looks, shapes and sizes or even their personality.. cuz this world is just too damn subjective.. it makes it hard to be confident in ourselves cuz we are constantly worried about how we are being portrayed to others.. cuz deep down inside everyone yearns to be accepted whether in a society, a family or even a group of friends.. once when you are confident for a minute, someone may come saying something which just crashes everything.. that feeling suxs.. sometimes i see people do the craziest things cuz of confidence.. i see models going on diets so that they will be booked for a show, i see people eating pills to get thinner, i see people cutting themselves to get attention.. the list of crazy things people do just gets on and on.. ultimately, these fear and doubt about what you lack will still be there cuz u are not solving the problem if u take pills or if u cut yourself.. you have to face it like a battle.. but first, you gotta understand yourself in terms of how much you are able to take and how much you can handle.. anyways.. whatever uncertainty or fear you face, be confident in yourself.. dont be afraid to make the wrong choices cuz u learn from them.. dont be afraid of being rejected cuz someone else will be accepting you.. dont be afraid that the whole world would turn their back on you cuz someone will be there for you.. in short.. dont be afraid.. dont let the fears and doubts overwhelm the confidence in you.. cuz if u think u cant, u cant.. ps. sorry to those who think my post dont make sense.. if it doesnt make sense and u dont like wad u read.. u can always click the x on the right upper corner.. i don have to please u or anyone.. :D The only limit to our realization of tomorrow will be our doubts of today. - Franklin Delano Roosevelt - back to top?