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i'm just a simple girl living in this not so simple world. Nothing much to say about me except i love my life, every single day of it. `Life's like a rollercoaster :) *pictures derived from deviantart and sayingimages

Sunday, April 26, 2009 @ 11:57 PM

Definition of happiness

happiness is defined as a state of mind or feeling such as contentment, satisfaction, pleasure, or joy as according to wikipedia.. now what does happiness mean to you? getting a new handphone, a new game, trying a new ride at the amusment park or spending time with loved ones.. everyone have their own defition of happiness and thus there is no right or wrong answer.. for me.. happiness is when i see people who surrounds me being healthy and happy for any reasons.. when i see people whom i care about being happy, it brings a smile to my face.. but do you know that despite being around sadness and hurt, etc. there are alot of little things in this world that can make someone happy. for instance, today while i was out i managed to see quite a few things whereby it brought a smile to my face.. and all these signifies different type of happiness..

the first was at the mrt.. this gal was walking towards the control station after meeting her bf who was supposed to be at work.. so while she was trying to dodge people from every direction of the mrt, suddenly she felt a hand tapping her shoulder.. when she turn around.. she saw her bf behind her.. she was so happy to see him sneak out of work just for a little while just to have one last glance before she left for wherever she was going.. she was so happy that she actually hugged him n kissed him before rushing him back to work.. isnt that sweet?? thats something i know i will wish for.. haha.. in her case.. her happiness is when she realised how much she mattered to her bf and where she stands in his heart.. i tink she will be smiling the whole day cuz i know i would.. haha

the next incident was when coke was giving out free coke lights today and this old man waited in line just to get a free coke.. and after he got the coke he was soo happy that he kept looking at the bottle.. some of us may think.. its only a coke light.. u can buy it aniwhere.. but to him.. it may not be just any coke light.. but it maybe a coke light which brought back memories that he temporary forgotten.. have any of you had that before?? when you receive something from someone and that triggers a certain memory that maybe you might or might not want to rmb... i guess majority of you have..

now lastly.. it was at the swimming complex when i saw this.. i swear it was one of the cutest thing i have seen.. after seeing her toddler end his swimming lesson, the mother wanted to bathe the little boy by rinsing him at the outside shower.. but he couldnt stand the water and he ran away from the water with a cheeky smile on his face.. his mother had no choice but to wrap him with a towel.. but from the face of his mother.. it was joy.. i guess she felt happy that her son is actually so cute and mischievious and i guess its a good thing at his age..

aniway to sum it all up.. happiness is something within us.. it is always there inside of us.. its just that sometimes it gets covered by other emotions that we feel happiness is gone.. when one day you feel that happiness is gone.. dont be sad.. dont.. instead.. try something new.. like loving yourself more.. and doing things you wanna do.. dont be afraid of rejection cuz ppl who care wun reject you for who u are.. instead they will embrace u for who u are cuz thats what they love about u.. dont u agree??

aniways today was a special day for me.. and i really enjoyed every minute and second of it.. i guess sometimes it just who you are with which makes a hell load of difference..

People spend a lifetime searching for happiness; looking for peace. They chase idle dreams, addictions, religions, even other people, hoping to fill the emptiness that plagues them. The irony is the only place they ever needed to search was within.

- Ramona L. Anderson -

Saturday, April 25, 2009 @ 1:15 AM

Life isnt always so easy

dont you all agree that life isnt always so easy.. as in life doesnt always go the way you want it to go.. then what can you do? accept it or run away from it or throw tantrum and cry.. majority of the people would probably say accept it.. but unknowingly run away from reality.. isnt that what most of us do? however, i dont tink there is anything wrong from running away from reality at times.. some people may say that its a coward way of living life but i beg to differ.. i feel that at times humans do need to run away from reality.. to understand more about themselves and also to take a break from the world.. the world is already so hard then why must we push ourselves to the breaking point? why cant everyone just live happily with no problems.. that is something everyone wishes for right? to live in your own world but yes that is impossible.. cuz everyone has to grow up one day and these problems are those which can help and guide us to grow up..

for eg in the picture above.. this was taken at a beach in india when the sun was shinning so effortlessly and this poor man was trying his best to hide in the shade.. sometimes its so hard to find a place to hide and be safe.. and beside him is a bucket filled with packet of water so that he can earn some money by selling it to people.. and why would anyone in the right mind buy from him when there are cold drinks sold somewhere nearby.. but that doesnt stop him from selling it.. this tells all of us that when life doesnt go our way or when things always looks gloomy on our side, dont give up and just keep trying.. cuz one day things will change for the better..

Wednesday, April 22, 2009 @ 12:34 AM

ice cream

today i am going to share about ice cream.. i came across a blog by this guy called anntonii.. he is a writer and his entry on ice cream really got me thinking.. this is what he said..

' if you have not been in a relationship before, you would think that it may just be like an ice cream, so sweet and appealing that makes you happy once you get your hands on it. and everytime when you see someone eating ice cream, you would swallow your saliva to quench your desire. you start looking at the melting ice cream in your hands and start to wonder why there is such a big difference once you got it and now. then you start to get frustrated because it is suppose to be an enjoyment like how you see others having it. finally you decide to throw the ice cream away cuz its not the way you want it.. '

so this guy is trying to ask.. are you going to throw every relationship away once its not what we want or expect and start looking for a new one? so what can do actually do??

we can actually enjoy it while it last.. at least even if we were to throw it away.. the taste of that ice cream will always be remembered as part of our memories.. because everything else may fade as we age.. but its only memories that walk and increases as we walk down life..

" The memories of the relationship would put a smile back one day, when we forget about the sadness. "

this ice cream story really appealed to me because it made me realise how one fall in love with another is because of what they expect out of the other person. and once they realise that their expectations arent met, they will just change.. but in life we gotta understand that not everything will go our way no matter how much we want it to be.. so sometimes we just gotta work with what we have and be grateful for it. cuz not everyone get to experience what you have and that makes you special and unique..

Tuesday, April 14, 2009 @ 12:46 PM

The life behind barbed wires

Finally i am back from 2 weeks of india.. we stayed in a city within a city.. get wad i mean?? i guess not.. haha.. aniways we stayed at this place called chettinad health city.. which is situated inside chennai ( which is also a city in india )

left singapore on the 28th and the flight was at 10 plus.. i felt soo sad to leave.. i really didnt wanna go especially when my fren backed out the last min due to the malaria pills side effect.. that made me din wanna go even more.. but i was glad i went.. for a few reasons.. haha.. 1. i get to finally see and experience india.. which i don tink i will be going back anitime soon.. haha.. 2. i got to make new frens and realise alot of stuff too.. 3. learn how grateful i am to be in singapore and how happi i am that i got a washing machine.. 4. got to learn how much my dear missed me.. haha..

when we reached chennai it was night time and the weather didnt seem as bad.. it was like spore's weather and the bus that we had was alrite.. at least it had air conditioning.. the hostel that we were staying had some constuction going on.. but the worst part is that my room is in the 4th level.. and we had to climb up with luggage and all.. the rooms were alrite.. the mattress seemed like just a piece of cloth.. haha.. luckily we had my sleeping bag.. haha.. the toilets had frogs, bugs and moths and all.. it was really horrible.. but we had not much of a choice..

honestly.. i didnt like the food at all.. imagine morning, lunch and dinner with curry and cheppati (spelling error) and all veggies.. although occassionally we had meat but tts a different story.. im just really glad for spore food.. haha.. but we got to go to alot of places which i thought wad interesting.. for eg places where gypsy stayed.. they are really a good lookin bunch.. we also got to see cadaviars which was really an eye opener for me.. i managed to touch some of the organs as well as the deformed fetus.. sorrie no pics for those.. there are alot more actually which i will post in time.. but then now.. let some of the pics do the talking..

even the bottled water on the plane has a weird taste to it..

the greedy cindy.. stole our apple juice.. (jkin)

cindy.. still thirsty after 3 packet of apple juice... tsk tsk.

i swear this is the best breakfast within the 2 wks.. haha

us camwhoring during some lame talk.. haha

do u seriously wanna go to the toilet?? we have no choice..

to be continued..

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Sunday, April 26, 2009 @ 11:57 PM Definition of happiness happiness is defined as a state of mind or feeling such as contentment, satisfaction, pleasure, or joy as according to wikipedia.. now what does happiness mean to you? getting a new handphone, a new game, trying a new ride at the amusment park or spending time with loved ones.. everyone have their own defition of happiness and thus there is no right or wrong answer.. for me.. happiness is when i see people who surrounds me being healthy and happy for any reasons.. when i see people whom i care about being happy, it brings a smile to my face.. but do you know that despite being around sadness and hurt, etc. there are alot of little things in this world that can make someone happy. for instance, today while i was out i managed to see quite a few things whereby it brought a smile to my face.. and all these signifies different type of happiness.. the first was at the mrt.. this gal was walking towards the control station after meeting her bf who was supposed to be at work.. so while she was trying to dodge people from every direction of the mrt, suddenly she felt a hand tapping her shoulder.. when she turn around.. she saw her bf behind her.. she was so happy to see him sneak out of work just for a little while just to have one last glance before she left for wherever she was going.. she was so happy that she actually hugged him n kissed him before rushing him back to work.. isnt that sweet?? thats something i know i will wish for.. haha.. in her case.. her happiness is when she realised how much she mattered to her bf and where she stands in his heart.. i tink she will be smiling the whole day cuz i know i would.. haha the next incident was when coke was giving out free coke lights today and this old man waited in line just to get a free coke.. and after he got the coke he was soo happy that he kept looking at the bottle.. some of us may think.. its only a coke light.. u can buy it aniwhere.. but to him.. it may not be just any coke light.. but it maybe a coke light which brought back memories that he temporary forgotten.. have any of you had that before?? when you receive something from someone and that triggers a certain memory that maybe you might or might not want to rmb... i guess majority of you have.. now lastly.. it was at the swimming complex when i saw this.. i swear it was one of the cutest thing i have seen.. after seeing her toddler end his swimming lesson, the mother wanted to bathe the little boy by rinsing him at the outside shower.. but he couldnt stand the water and he ran away from the water with a cheeky smile on his face.. his mother had no choice but to wrap him with a towel.. but from the face of his mother.. it was joy.. i guess she felt happy that her son is actually so cute and mischievious and i guess its a good thing at his age.. aniway to sum it all up.. happiness is something within us.. it is always there inside of us.. its just that sometimes it gets covered by other emotions that we feel happiness is gone.. when one day you feel that happiness is gone.. dont be sad.. dont.. instead.. try something new.. like loving yourself more.. and doing things you wanna do.. dont be afraid of rejection cuz ppl who care wun reject you for who u are.. instead they will embrace u for who u are cuz thats what they love about u.. dont u agree?? aniways today was a special day for me.. and i really enjoyed every minute and second of it.. i guess sometimes it just who you are with which makes a hell load of difference.. People spend a lifetime searching for happiness; looking for peace. They chase idle dreams, addictions, religions, even other people, hoping to fill the emptiness that plagues them. The irony is the only place they ever needed to search was within. - Ramona L. Anderson - back to top?
Saturday, April 25, 2009 @ 1:15 AM Life isnt always so easy dont you all agree that life isnt always so easy.. as in life doesnt always go the way you want it to go.. then what can you do? accept it or run away from it or throw tantrum and cry.. majority of the people would probably say accept it.. but unknowingly run away from reality.. isnt that what most of us do? however, i dont tink there is anything wrong from running away from reality at times.. some people may say that its a coward way of living life but i beg to differ.. i feel that at times humans do need to run away from reality.. to understand more about themselves and also to take a break from the world.. the world is already so hard then why must we push ourselves to the breaking point? why cant everyone just live happily with no problems.. that is something everyone wishes for right? to live in your own world but yes that is impossible.. cuz everyone has to grow up one day and these problems are those which can help and guide us to grow up.. for eg in the picture above.. this was taken at a beach in india when the sun was shinning so effortlessly and this poor man was trying his best to hide in the shade.. sometimes its so hard to find a place to hide and be safe.. and beside him is a bucket filled with packet of water so that he can earn some money by selling it to people.. and why would anyone in the right mind buy from him when there are cold drinks sold somewhere nearby.. but that doesnt stop him from selling it.. this tells all of us that when life doesnt go our way or when things always looks gloomy on our side, dont give up and just keep trying.. cuz one day things will change for the better.. back to top?
Wednesday, April 22, 2009 @ 12:34 AM ice cream today i am going to share about ice cream.. i came across a blog by this guy called anntonii.. he is a writer and his entry on ice cream really got me thinking.. this is what he said.. ' if you have not been in a relationship before, you would think that it may just be like an ice cream, so sweet and appealing that makes you happy once you get your hands on it. and everytime when you see someone eating ice cream, you would swallow your saliva to quench your desire. you start looking at the melting ice cream in your hands and start to wonder why there is such a big difference once you got it and now. then you start to get frustrated because it is suppose to be an enjoyment like how you see others having it. finally you decide to throw the ice cream away cuz its not the way you want it.. ' so this guy is trying to ask.. are you going to throw every relationship away once its not what we want or expect and start looking for a new one? so what can do actually do?? we can actually enjoy it while it last.. at least even if we were to throw it away.. the taste of that ice cream will always be remembered as part of our memories.. because everything else may fade as we age.. but its only memories that walk and increases as we walk down life.. " The memories of the relationship would put a smile back one day, when we forget about the sadness. " this ice cream story really appealed to me because it made me realise how one fall in love with another is because of what they expect out of the other person. and once they realise that their expectations arent met, they will just change.. but in life we gotta understand that not everything will go our way no matter how much we want it to be.. so sometimes we just gotta work with what we have and be grateful for it. cuz not everyone get to experience what you have and that makes you special and unique.. back to top?
Tuesday, April 14, 2009 @ 12:46 PM The life behind barbed wires Finally i am back from 2 weeks of india.. we stayed in a city within a city.. get wad i mean?? i guess not.. haha.. aniways we stayed at this place called chettinad health city.. which is situated inside chennai ( which is also a city in india ) left singapore on the 28th and the flight was at 10 plus.. i felt soo sad to leave.. i really didnt wanna go especially when my fren backed out the last min due to the malaria pills side effect.. that made me din wanna go even more.. but i was glad i went.. for a few reasons.. haha.. 1. i get to finally see and experience india.. which i don tink i will be going back anitime soon.. haha.. 2. i got to make new frens and realise alot of stuff too.. 3. learn how grateful i am to be in singapore and how happi i am that i got a washing machine.. 4. got to learn how much my dear missed me.. haha.. when we reached chennai it was night time and the weather didnt seem as bad.. it was like spore's weather and the bus that we had was alrite.. at least it had air conditioning.. the hostel that we were staying had some constuction going on.. but the worst part is that my room is in the 4th level.. and we had to climb up with luggage and all.. the rooms were alrite.. the mattress seemed like just a piece of cloth.. haha.. luckily we had my sleeping bag.. haha.. the toilets had frogs, bugs and moths and all.. it was really horrible.. but we had not much of a choice.. honestly.. i didnt like the food at all.. imagine morning, lunch and dinner with curry and cheppati (spelling error) and all veggies.. although occassionally we had meat but tts a different story.. im just really glad for spore food.. haha.. but we got to go to alot of places which i thought wad interesting.. for eg places where gypsy stayed.. they are really a good lookin bunch.. we also got to see cadaviars which was really an eye opener for me.. i managed to touch some of the organs as well as the deformed fetus.. sorrie no pics for those.. there are alot more actually which i will post in time.. but then now.. let some of the pics do the talking.. even the bottled water on the plane has a weird taste to it.. the greedy cindy.. stole our apple juice.. (jkin) cindy.. still thirsty after 3 packet of apple juice... tsk tsk. i swear this is the best breakfast within the 2 wks.. haha us camwhoring during some lame talk.. haha do u seriously wanna go to the toilet?? we have no choice.. to be continued.. back to top?