i'm just a simple girl living in this not so simple world. Nothing much to say about me except i love my life, every single day of it. `Life's like a rollercoaster :) *pictures derived from deviantart and sayingimages

UNCERTAINTY

in life there are alot of uncertainty be it regarding your future, your relationships or your life.. these uncertainties are there for a reason and to me i feel that its there cuz of an emptiness inside, a fear rather.. it is a state of doubt.. doubts usually build up when we are not confident of ourselves or of others.. this confidence is really hard to find sometimes and once you find it, its hard to keep..

im sure there are times when people dont feel confident about themselves, like their looks, shapes and sizes or even their personality.. cuz this world is just too damn subjective.. it makes it hard to be confident in ourselves cuz we are constantly worried about how we are being portrayed to others.. cuz deep down inside everyone yearns to be accepted whether in a society, a family or even a group of friends.. once when you are confident for a minute, someone may come saying something which just crashes everything.. that feeling suxs..

sometimes i see people do the craziest things cuz of confidence.. i see models going on diets so that they will be booked for a show, i see people eating pills to get thinner, i see people cutting themselves to get attention.. the list of crazy things people do just gets on and on.. ultimately, these fear and doubt about what you lack will still be there cuz u are not solving the problem if u take pills or if u cut yourself.. you have to face it like a battle.. but first, you gotta understand yourself in terms of how much you are able to take and how much you can handle..

anyways.. whatever uncertainty or fear you face, be confident in yourself.. dont be afraid to make the wrong choices cuz u learn from them.. dont be afraid of being rejected cuz someone else will be accepting you.. dont be afraid that the whole world would turn their back on you cuz someone will be there for you.. in short.. dont be afraid.. dont let the fears and doubts overwhelm the confidence in you.. cuz if u think u cant, u cant..

ps. sorry to those who think my post dont make sense.. if it doesnt make sense and u dont like wad u read.. u can always click the x on the right upper corner.. i don have to please u or anyone.. :D





The only limit to our realization of tomorrow will be our doubts of today.
- Franklin Delano Roosevelt -

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